Learning How to Actively Stand By
Samirah Franklin recently tried on a new role for size: catcaller at a protest rally.
鈥淗ey you鈥檙e looking good. I like those jeans,鈥� Franklin, 19, of Sandtown, slyly told a young woman who visibly winced at the attention she was receiving. 鈥淵ou鈥檙e looking reallllly 驳辞辞诲.鈥�
Several bystanders encircled the woman, in an effort to come to her aid, forming a human buffer zone between the harasser and her intended target.
Franklin and the 鈥渧ictim鈥� were among 60 people who participated in a workshop on how to be a nonviolent active bystander on Jan. 20, at the 91大神, Baltimore (UMB) Community Engagement Center. Through role-playing exercises participants learned techniques in how to de-escalate conflict and come to the aid of someone being verbally harassed or intimidated. (View a .)
The training, sponsored by UMB鈥檚 Anti-Oppression Work Group in collaboration with the political action group Swam Revolt, was one of 23 taking place simultaneously at sites across the District of Columbia, Maryland, and Virginia, and the only one held in Baltimore.
鈥淭hat was really hard to do,鈥� Franklin acknowledged of her role as the 鈥渁ttacker鈥� after the exercise was over. 鈥淪ome people aren鈥檛 going to be bothering you in 140 characters [on Twitter]. Some people are going to be in your face. I have some hate in me and I try to redirect the hate toward change.鈥�
As an African-American Muslim woman, Franklin said she felt coming to the workshop was 鈥渟uper important.鈥�
鈥淚n my normal walk of life, I would definitely like to be prepared with any way I could to be an ally to someone who needed some help,鈥� she said. 鈥淲e鈥檝e all got to have a better way of handling things.鈥�
Participants in a nonviolent active bystander training session held on Jan. 20, take turns role-playing scenarios in which they de-escalate conflict and peacefully intervene when witnessing incidents of harassment or abuse.
The workshop encouraged people to become active bystanders and de-escalate conflicts by engaging the target, rather than the attacker, and offering the target support. In all, nearly 2,000 people underwent the training throughout the region.
鈥淲e鈥檙e not preparing for the 1960s. We鈥檙e not going to touch one another. We鈥檙e not going to push you to your breaking point. But this is hard work,鈥� said Annie Hilb, who along with students Karen Campion and Bethan McGarry facilitated the afternoon workshop. 鈥淭here鈥檚 no easy way of dealing with these complex issues.鈥�
Many attendees said they participated in the workshop as a way to prepare for the Women鈥檚 March on Washington, taking place the next day.
Participants also learned how to use their cell phones to document injustice and offer support to keep bad situations from getting worse.
Among the exercises conducted was what is known as a 鈥渉assle line,鈥� in which two lines of people face each other and take turns verbally harassing each other for a minute at a time. Shouting and animated gestures filled the room. The goal is to find ways to intervene without escalating the confrontation.
鈥淚鈥檝e been in situations where I鈥檝e seen something happen and I鈥檝e thought, could I have done something differently?鈥� said Chrysalinn Archie, a community member who attended the workshop with her husband, Ulysses. 鈥淭his training will give me that skill set.鈥�
Jennifer Gallinat attended the training while visiting from St. Louis for the Women鈥檚 March on Washington.
鈥淚n many ways, with the people attending today, it was like preaching to the choir,鈥� she said. 鈥淏ut there are times when even the choir needs to hear the sermon, too.鈥�
